I have my copy of His secret obsession for a while now, and I decided to try and write down how it have worked out for me, at least so far. This mainly because people I know started to be curious about it, so I will try and answer on all of their questions here.
First I had problem with telling anybody about buying it because I felt ashamed. I think most people do feel like that when they are about to admit they need some kind of a push when it comes to almost any aspect of life. At least I am like this.
Product Name: His Secret Obsession-HISSECRET
Publisher Web Site: http://hissecretobsession.com/
Trial period:60 Days
I have to admit that I purchased it almost the same day, mainly because of the price. It has a strong price, that is for sure, but I was lucky enough to get it on discount. I think it was a special offer, or something like that. This way I knew I won’t regret it too much, in case I didn’t like it.
It all started with checking out books online, trying to find something interesting to read these days. My friends know that I am a fan of psychology and all those (as my friend Jenny would say) “cheesy self-help books”. I am not saying that they work, but I believe that some things do get stuck in your mind eventually, and after that you can use them in different situations and change your life in a long run. I believe that different point of view and good ideas can give you different solutions when you have a struggle in your life. That is the main reason why I buy this kind of books, and I really enjoy reading them.
Anyway, this is how I stumbled upon His secret obsession. I went quickly through description and short reviews, and found this free online presentation that gave me the better idea about the product. Basically, I liked the idea but I was mostly curious. I wanted to get my hands on it and read it as soon as possible. What I liked about the presentation the most, is that it gives you this feeling that you already have everything you need to get what you want. Now you think, why bother buying it then? Well, I wanted to get more of this feeling. It is a good idea, I give them that.
I purchased it with my credit card. That went easy! Soon enough I got access to the program. So far, price was good, getting the product was easy and went without any troubles. One of the cons is that we are talking about a soft copy, an e-book, which could be a con if you happen to prefer hard copies. However, it is clear that this is what you are getting, so there is no mistake there.
His secret obsession is very easy to read. I like the tone, it is not heavy and it kept my attention. I have to say that I enjoyed it a lot and went back to read it all over again. I would recommend it to my friends, weather they have problems with their partners or they are single. Ok, it is definitely something I would give my mom to read as well, not that she needs it (let her be the judge of that). I mean, it gives you different point of view that you might want to keep in mind, no matter the age or situation that you are in.
This program is all age appropriate, which is a great thing. I am not a fan of excluding people (what do you know what I find interesting and useful, and weather I feel young or not), but I do understand that some products are still aiming for a certain target groups. Not this product, so it gets a point from me!
Therefore, to summarize. Whatever your age might be, you are safe to buy this product as it is all about good idea that can be reused in many situations. But more about that later.
I have read many books on this subject. Many of them I wouldn’t recommend if you are looking for somebody else to figure out your life instead of you. Many people get wrong impression when buying self-help books. Many of those books offer detailed guide on how to change yourself completely just to get the man you want. Very poor, I do not enjoy reading things like that. That is why I was relieved when I saw that this program is nothing like that. It has nothing to do with pretending to be someone else, or playing games in order to get the man you love.
This program should help you trigger your man’s obsession. Well, try not to get the wrong idea. Basically, this product is based on belief that there is an instinct in every man that drives him to do things in life. Fair enough, we all have one of those. However, when you think about it, it makes sense. If you find out what this thing might be, you can use it in a good way and draw his attention to yourself. Pretty basic, right? But that is why it probably works. It is all about instincts in men that drives you closer or further from them.
What I liked next is that this program is based on over 12 years’ worth of research and experience of a relationship expert James Bauer. Therefore, it has many examples of real life stories of men and women that he helped on the way. I liked the way it sounds. He worked for so many years with thousands and thousands of people, and have put it in the book. That made me curious to see what he has found out so far. Was I satisfied with what I’ve got? Yes, I was.
This program includes information that could help with distant husbands, indecisive partners and etc., no matter the age. It gives examples that could be reused in almost every situation when it comes to relationships. It is something that could be useful to women who know what they want. Now, this is also underlined in presentation – women that know what they want. As I understood it, this is for those women that need help with their partners, but they already know exactly what they want, especially from men.
The idea was to improve your love life, to spice up your marriage. It is not really about putting your finger on the problem, or learning what have you been doing wrong. It gives different point of view that will help you with your self-esteem as it pushes you to say out loud what you want and need. It is unique idea, and I like it!
No matter how good the product seems at first, there are some cons. If you are hoping to read about detailed explanation of what you should do or shouldn’t do in your relationship and who is to blame, you will be disappointed. I wasn’t expecting this; therefore, I don’t find it to be a con.
If you are expecting to get few hundred pages of material, you will be disappointed as well. This program is short, but it is anything but boring. Also, anyone can access it, no matter the country they live in, which is a huge pro.
My experience with His Secret Obsession
As this product is supposed to help you out with your love life, there is no other way than to share my personal things, in order for you to get an idea how it worked out for me.
I have been going out with this guy for years now. I wouldn’t say that we are dating. It is more like off and on situation that lasts for 3 years now. When we are together, we do look and act like a normal couple. We enjoy each other’s company, he calls every day and picks me up when we go out. We spend a lot of time together and talk a lot about everything. Basically, we have all the things, at least until he pulls away.
He has this thing where he just disappears. First, he becomes very distant until he is gone from my life for some short period of time. When he did this the first time, I thought that we have broken up. However, he came back after a while apologising, and things eventually went back to normal. We have this connection, now I understand, as I am the only person who started to tolerate his behaviour. I mean, I am a career women and I have my own problems to deals with. This has occupied my time for a while. However, when it happened for the 2 nd time, he broke my heart. I couldn’t believe what I did to myself. It is true, fool me twice..
Soon after that, I was fine with this on and off situation, and I accepted him the way he is. I decided I will not give up on this beautiful thing we have when we are together. This was keeping me alive for a long time, but in the end, it started to bother me.
I am a strong woman, and I know what I want. And as it turned out, I want a serious relationship, someone to go back to after a rough day at the office, and I do want a family after all. I thought about ending it, but the equation is simple. There is no solving it without him in it. Therefore, I gave in.
At times, it was tough, even really bad. Many women will feel me when I say there is nothing worse than somebody not returning your calls or texts. It brings out the worst in you.
Every time he went silent on me, my imagination started blooming. I wouldn’t go for the most obvious reason (that he has another woman in his life and that he is with me when he wants to get away from his responsibilities). If I hadn’t believed in myself I would have thought that he is not a marriage material, or that he just doesn’t see me that way. However, things seem to be much complicated. And on top of many other things, he is a workaholic, in sense that he has a lot on his plate when it comes to work, which occupies most of his time.
Therefore, when I read the description of the product that assured me that I will learn how to trigger his obsession and make him see me differently, I was determined to try it out for myself. As I found out after reading this program, we were almost a typical case. He loves me for sure, but for some reason he didn’t see that I am the one he wanted all along. Cheesy, right?
After I followed the program, it started to work after only few texts, which I have been sending him every once in a while. I can say without a doubt that our relationship has changed, and he didn’t go silent on me since. He is much more interested in what I have to say, what I need and want, and he treats me better than before. I think we understand each other more now. At least he gets it how it must be hard for me when he turns his back on me.
I am very hopeful that he will propose one day, as we finally started talking about moving in together. I can’t say that I am relaxed 100%, but I am learning how to be. I can easily say that this program has worked out for me, and I don’t regret buying it, not even for a second. This program is worth buying and I am not ashamed to say that I love it and I am grateful! My overall experience with this product is better than I have expected, maybe that is the main reason why I’m more than satisfied with it.